A Marriage Every Day® experience

Healthy Husbands

Build healthy habits for a life of love and service.

Care for your health with practical fitness and nutrition guidance that fits everyday life. Healthy Husbands helps you develop habits that support your energy, strength, and ability to be present for the people and responsibilities entrusted to you.

Begins
November 1, 2026
Cost
Included with membership
Where
Inside Marriage Every Day
Matt Fitzsimmons standing on the beach at Torrey Pines in San Diego, smiling, with a lifeguard tower behind him.
First featured coachMatt FitzsimmonsFitz Performance Coaching LLC, San Diego

Why it matters

Your health is part of how you show up for the people you love.

Marriage asks for your presence: at the table, on the weekend, through the hard stretches. Caring for your body is one practical way to keep giving it. This is ordinary stewardship, the same care you would want for your wife and kids.

Start where you are, with habits that fit your abilities, responsibilities, and everyday life. Men of every age and starting point belong here, and your worth as a husband has never depended on a scale or a stopwatch.

  • Energy after work

    Walking in the door with enough left for dinner, conversation with your wife, and the evening that follows.

  • Saturday with the family

    Keeping up on a hike, carrying the cooler, or getting on the floor with the kids without paying for it on Monday.

  • Meals you can actually plan

    Simple food choices for real weeks, including the ones with late meetings and a grocery run squeezed in.

  • Habits that survive busy weeks

    Routines small enough to keep when work, travel, or a new baby takes over the calendar.

What steady care for your health can support

  • Energy for daily responsibilities and time with family
  • Strength and mobility for an active life
  • Sustainable routines during demanding seasons
  • Confidence and follow-through with personal commitments
  • Thoughtful stewardship of your time and health
  • Capacity to take part in parish and community life
  • A practical example of caring for yourself and others, including for husbands who are fathers
Studio portrait of Matt Fitzsimmons in a dark suit and white shirt, crouching and smiling.
FounderFitz Performance Coaching LLC San Diego, California

First featured coach

Launching with Matt Fitzsimmons.

Matt is a fitness and nutrition coach and the founder of Fitz Performance Coaching LLC in San Diego, California. He is Catholic and a 2017 graduate of The Catholic University of America. He wants to serve men who are living the vocation of marriage.

Certification

NASM Certified Personal Trainer

In progress

Working toward the NASM Certified Nutrition Coach credential

Matt’s clients, including husbands and fathers, have lost fat, built muscle, and built habits that last. Having lost more than 40 pounds himself, he understands the work of building routines that fit everyday life.

Expect realistic next steps, plain explanations, and patience with wherever you are starting.

Navy service
6 yearsActive duty as a trumpet player with Navy Band Southwest.
Fitness leadership
4 yearsAssistant Command Fitness Leader, helping sailors train and meet fitness standards.
His own path
40+ lbsLost more than 40 pounds and built habits he could keep.

Fitness leadership in the Navy

During four of his six years in the Navy, Matt served as Assistant Command Fitness Leader. He trained sailors to meet Navy fitness standards, led group fitness classes, and helped sailors improve their movement and train without pain. He also coached sailors in the Navy’s Fitness Enhancement Program, helping those who had fallen behind work toward meeting the standards.

Performing

As a trumpet player with Navy Band Southwest, Matt performed for a sitting U.S. president and heads of state. He also performed for Pope Francis.

Matt's initial programming

November 1, 2026, through January 31, 2027.

Matt's initial community programming is included with Marriage Every Day membership at no additional cost. Healthy Husbands carries on after these three months. Here is what Matt's first run is planned to include.

Where it happens

Husbands Fellowship and a dedicated Healthy Husbands space inside Marriage Every Day.

Included with membership

Practical fitness and nutrition tips

Weekly habits and challenges

Workout demonstrations

Polls and member conversations

Live teaching and Q&A

Meal ideas and practical food choices

Every week

A weekly rhythm

The plan is a steady week-to-week pattern: a habit or challenge to work on, some practical teaching, and time to ask questions and compare notes with other men. The day-by-day calendar is still being set, and specific dates and times will be shared with members once they are confirmed.

You can ask Matt questions, learn alongside other husbands, and apply the guidance at your own starting point. Nobody needs to be in shape before joining in.

  • A habit or challenge to work on
  • Some practical teaching
  • Time to ask questions and compare notes
  • Then again the next week
Begins November 1, 2026Through January 31, 2027

November · Monthly Alignment Focus

Mission, Witness, and Service

November's programming connects to this month's focus with a practical idea: intentional care for our health can help us have more to give, at home, at church, and in the community.

December

Rituals, Celebration, and Renewal

Monthly Alignment Focus

January

Expectations and Roles

Monthly Alignment Focus

Through Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the new year, the aim is steady progress. No shame about a big meal, and no all-or-nothing rules.

Optional coaching

Want individual support? Matt will also offer personal coaching.

Everything above is part of your membership. For members who want a plan built around them, Matt will also offer exclusive member coaching through his own business.

Optional, purchased separately

Personal coaching with Matt

For members who want a plan built around them, online from anywhere in the country or in person around San Diego.

Coaching details are being finalizedMeet Matt

Provided and billed by Fitz Performance Coaching LLC, independently of Marriage Every Day.

  • Online

    Virtual coaching

    Work with Matt online from home.

    For members across the United States

  • On site

    In-person coaching

    Train with Matt in person around San Diego.

    For members local to the San Diego, California area

From a client

Hear from someone Matt has coached

One of Matt's coaching clients shares, in his own words, what working with Matt has been like.

Virtual

Coaching across the U.S.

In person

Near San Diego

Included with membership

Healthy Husbands community programming. Tips, weekly habits, demonstrations, live teaching, and conversation with other men inside Marriage Every Day. No extra cost. You do not need to buy coaching to benefit from Healthy Husbands.

Join in

Take care of yourself, so you have more to give.

Caring for your health is one practical way to serve God, love your wife and family well, and give more of yourself to your parish and community. Healthy Husbands is an ongoing part of Marriage Every Day membership, and Matt's initial programming begins November 1. Join today, or sign in if you are already a member.

Educational content only. Healthy Husbands shares general fitness and nutrition education. It is not medical advice and does not replace care from your physician or another qualified health professional. Check with your doctor before starting a new exercise or nutrition plan, especially if you have a health condition, injury, or concern.

Matt Fitzsimmons is a certified personal trainer, not a physician or registered dietitian. His certifications and military service describe his background and do not imply endorsement by NASM, the U.S. Navy, or the Church. Marriage Every Day is an initiative of The Marriage Group LLC. Optional personal coaching is offered independently by Fitz Performance Coaching LLC.